Funerals
The Loss of a Child: A Grief No Parent Should Have to Face
There are some losses for which words will never feel enough. The death of a child, whether during pregnancy, in infancy, in childhood or as an adult, is one of them.When a child dies, parents do not simply grieve for the person they have lost. They may also grieve for the future they imagined: birthdays that will not be celebrated, milestones that will not be reached, conversations that will not take place and memories that will not now be made.
No two parents will experience this loss in exactly the same way. There is no correct way to grieve, no timetable to follow and no point at which someone should be expected to have “moved on.” Grief is deeply personal, and the love between a parent and child does not end with death.
Helping Children Ask Questions About Death
Talking to a child about death is never easy. As adults, our instinct is often to protect children from sadness, but avoiding the subject can leave them feeling more confused or frightened. Children usually cope better when they are given simple, honest answers and know that it is safe to ask questions.
Read MoreLiving with Loss: Caring for Your Mental Health Through Grief 💜
During times of bereavement, looking after your mental health is just as important as caring for your physical wellbeing. Simple things such as getting enough rest, eating regularly, spending time outdoors, and staying connected with family and friends can make a real difference. Talking about your loved one and sharing treasured memories can also bring comfort and help keep their memory alive.
Read MoreFuneral Etiquette in the Modern World (Without Panicking About Getting It Wrong)
et’s be honest… many people feel surprisingly anxious about going to funerals. 😬
Not because they don’t care — but because they worry:
👔 What do I wear?
💬 What do I say?
🪑 Where do I sit?
🎵 Do I have to sing?
😢 What if I cry?
😂 What if I laugh?
📱 What if my phone goes off playing Dancing Queen?
(For the love of all things sacred… turn it off. 😅)
Funerals can feel full of invisible rules, and many people are terrified of making some dreadful social misstep.
Read MoreHelping You Find the Right Place to Gather, Remember & Celebrate in Telford and Shrewsbury
When someone we love passes, one of the most important moments afterwards is simply being together. Finding the right place for a wake—somewhere warm, welcoming, and comfortable—can make all the difference. It’s where stories are shared, laughter gently returns, and memories are kept alive.
To help, I’ve put together a guide to wake venues across Telford & Shrewsbury 💚
Read MoreWhat Not to Say in a Eulogy: Gentle Guidance for a Meaningful Tribute
Writing a eulogy is one of the most personal things you will ever do.
Most advice focuses on what to include — but knowing what not to say in a eulogy can be just as important.
When emotions are high and the room is full of people who are grieving, sensitivity matters. A few careful choices can make the difference between a comforting tribute and an awkward moment.
Read MoreWriting a Eulogy? Start With These 4 Simple Stages 🤍
Being asked to write a eulogy is an honour — but it can also feel overwhelming. If you’re staring at a blank page wondering where to begin… take a breath. It doesn’t need to be perfect.It doesn’t need to be poetic.It just needs to be sincere. Here’s a simple 4-stage structure that can make writing…
Read MoreHow to write a eulogy without falling apart ✍️💛
A eulogy isn’t meant to be perfect. It’s simply the story of someone you love.
Read MoreCelebrant or Humanist – What’s the Difference?
When planning a funeral, wedding, renewal of vows or baby naming ceremony, many people wonder about the difference between a celebrant and a humanist. The two roles are often confused, but understanding the distinction can help you choose the right type of ceremony for you or your family. What does a celebrant do? A celebrant…
Read MoreA Christmas Reflection: Interment of Ashes ✨🎄
Christmas is a time of light, love, and memories. For many families, it’s also a moment when we feel the absence of loved ones a little more deeply.
One gentle way to honour them is through an interment of ashes — creating a peaceful place to visit not just at Christmas, but all year round.