Celebration of Life
Celebrant or Humanist – What’s the Difference?
When planning a funeral, wedding, renewal of vows or baby naming ceremony, many people wonder about the difference between a celebrant and a humanist. The two roles are often confused, but understanding the distinction can help you choose the right type of ceremony for you or your family. What does a celebrant do? A celebrant…
Read MoreA Christmas Reflection: Interment of Ashes ✨🎄
Christmas is a time of light, love, and memories. For many families, it’s also a moment when we feel the absence of loved ones a little more deeply.
One gentle way to honour them is through an interment of ashes — creating a peaceful place to visit not just at Christmas, but all year round.
Honouring a Life of Service: Funerals for Members of Public Service Organisations
Across the UK, countless people dedicate their time, skills, and compassion to organisations rooted in service — groups like the Freemasons, Rotary Clubs, Lions Clubs, the Women’s Institute, and many more. Membership of these organisations often reflects a deep commitment to community, friendship, and charity.
When someone who has lived by these values dies, their funeral becomes much more than a farewell. It becomes an opportunity to recognise a lifetime of service and to celebrate the impact they’ve made on others.
At Top Note Ceremonies, I work closely with families to create funeral services that honour both the individual and the organisation that meant so much to them.
Read MoreChoosing a Reading or Poem for a Funeral or Celebration of Life
It doesn’t have to be solemn – it just has to feel right Choosing a reading or poem for a funeral or celebration of life can feel like a daunting task. In the middle of organising the service, supporting family, and navigating your own emotions, selecting the right words can seem like one more overwhelming…
Read MoreDirect Cremation and Saying Goodbye: You Still Have Options
In recent months, I’ve spoken with many families who chose a direct cremation for their loved one.
For some, it felt like the perfect choice — simple, affordable, and in keeping with what their loved one wanted. But for others, there was something missing. Not regret about the cremation itself, but regret that they never had the chance to gather, to say goodbye, and to mark the moment together.
And that’s the part many families don’t realise: choosing a direct cremation doesn’t mean you lose the opportunity for ceremony. You still can — and perhaps should — create that space to honour a life.
Read More💬 Thinking about hiring a celebrant? Here’s what you need to know!
As a celebrant I get asked these questions all the time — so here’s a quick guide to the most common ones:
1️⃣ What is a celebrant?
A celebrant designs and leads personalised ceremonies for weddings, funerals, naming ceremonies, vow renewals, and more — telling your story, your way.
2️⃣ Celebrant vs Registrar – what’s the difference?
This is the current situation, but it may change in the future. Registrars’ services can also vary, so it’s always best to check with your local registrar’s office for the most up-to-date information.
Celebrant: Personalised, flexible, any venue, any style. (In England & Wales, you still need a separate legal registration.)
Registrar: Legal marriage in a licensed venue, following a set script — no religious/spiritual content allowed.
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Honouring Milestones: The Role of Rituals in Meaningful Ceremonies
For all ceremonies celebrating life’s milestones, there are countless familiar traditions that people routinely include, like wedding flowers, the bridal gown and veil, top hats, bridesmaid dresses, exchanging vows, and the iconic kiss. Many of these customs have been passed down for centuries, but there are also numerous other elements that a celebrant can incorporate…
Read MoreCelebrating a Life: The Power of a Visual Tribute at Your Loved One’s Funeral
When words fail, pictures speak. A visual tribute is a touching and heartfelt way to honour a loved one’s life, showcasing their journey, relationships, and passions through the lens of cherished photographs. Adding a carefully chosen piece of music to the presentation can elevate the moment, evoking memories and emotions that bring everyone closer together.
Read MoreCreating a Heartfelt Funeral Tribute: Writing a Meaningful Eulogy
A eulogy is a deeply personal tribute that honours the life, character, and legacy of someone who has passed away. It’s a delicate balance of facts, anecdotes, and heartfelt stories that paint a vivid picture of the person’s life. Whether you’re writing for a parent, sibling, spouse, or friend, a good eulogy provides comfort, celebrates…
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