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Funeral Etiquette in the Modern World (Without Panicking About Getting It Wrong)
et’s be honest… many people feel surprisingly anxious about going to funerals. 😬
Not because they don’t care — but because they worry:
👔 What do I wear?
💬 What do I say?
🪑 Where do I sit?
🎵 Do I have to sing?
😢 What if I cry?
😂 What if I laugh?
📱 What if my phone goes off playing Dancing Queen?
(For the love of all things sacred… turn it off. 😅)
Funerals can feel full of invisible rules, and many people are terrified of making some dreadful social misstep.
Read MoreWhy I’m Active on Social Media as a Celebrant – And Why It’s Personal, Not Commercial
“You’re everywhere.” It’s something I hear quite often. YouTube. TikTok. Facebook. Instagram. LinkedIn. And usually, it’s followed by: “Isn’t it all a bit too commercial?” It’s a fair question—but it’s based on a misunderstanding of what it means to be a celebrant. This profession is built on people, not products Unlike many services, being a…
Read MoreHelping You Find the Right Place to Gather, Remember & Celebrate in Telford and Shrewsbury
When someone we love passes, one of the most important moments afterwards is simply being together. Finding the right place for a wake—somewhere warm, welcoming, and comfortable—can make all the difference. It’s where stories are shared, laughter gently returns, and memories are kept alive.
To help, I’ve put together a guide to wake venues across Telford & Shrewsbury 💚
Read MoreWhat Not to Say in a Eulogy: Gentle Guidance for a Meaningful Tribute
Writing a eulogy is one of the most personal things you will ever do.
Most advice focuses on what to include — but knowing what not to say in a eulogy can be just as important.
When emotions are high and the room is full of people who are grieving, sensitivity matters. A few careful choices can make the difference between a comforting tribute and an awkward moment.
Read MoreHow to write a eulogy without falling apart ✍️💛
A eulogy isn’t meant to be perfect. It’s simply the story of someone you love.
Read MoreCelebrant or Humanist – What’s the Difference?
When planning a funeral, wedding, renewal of vows or baby naming ceremony, many people wonder about the difference between a celebrant and a humanist. The two roles are often confused, but understanding the distinction can help you choose the right type of ceremony for you or your family. What does a celebrant do? A celebrant…
Read MoreEmbracing Love – An Inclusive LGBTQIA+ Wedding or Commitment Ceremony
Welcome to a celebration of love without boundaries—a space where every union is honoured, cherished, and filled to the brim with joy. As a Shropshire-based celebrant, I’m truly honoured to walk alongside you as we craft a day that will live in your hearts forever. Your ceremony is more than an event… it’s a tapestry…
Read MoreChoosing a Reading or Poem for a Funeral or Celebration of Life
It doesn’t have to be solemn – it just has to feel right Choosing a reading or poem for a funeral or celebration of life can feel like a daunting task. In the middle of organising the service, supporting family, and navigating your own emotions, selecting the right words can seem like one more overwhelming…
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