Celebrant
I DO… WE DO… THE KIDS DO TOO! ✨💍
A wedding is often described as two people coming together and saying, “I do.” But when children are involved, it can mean something even more special—a whole new family coming together and saying, “We do!” 👨👩👧👦
For blended families, the wedding day is not only about becoming husband and wife or life partners. It is the beginning of a new chapter for everyone—a family team built upon love, trust and togetherness. 🥰
Children and stepchildren might feel excited, proud and thrilled to be involved—but they may also feel nervous or uncertain about what the future will bring. Sometimes they may feel all of these emotions at once, and that is perfectly natural. 💭💕
Read MoreThe Loss of a Child: A Grief No Parent Should Have to Face
There are some losses for which words will never feel enough. The death of a child, whether during pregnancy, in infancy, in childhood or as an adult, is one of them.When a child dies, parents do not simply grieve for the person they have lost. They may also grieve for the future they imagined: birthdays that will not be celebrated, milestones that will not be reached, conversations that will not take place and memories that will not now be made.
No two parents will experience this loss in exactly the same way. There is no correct way to grieve, no timetable to follow and no point at which someone should be expected to have “moved on.” Grief is deeply personal, and the love between a parent and child does not end with death.
Helping Children Ask Questions About Death
Talking to a child about death is never easy. As adults, our instinct is often to protect children from sadness, but avoiding the subject can leave them feeling more confused or frightened. Children usually cope better when they are given simple, honest answers and know that it is safe to ask questions.
Read MoreProtecting Your Mental Wellbeing While Planning Your Wedding
For many couples, getting engaged marks the beginning of one of the most exciting chapters of their lives. The prospect of celebrating your love with family and friends, choosing a venue, planning your ceremony, and imagining your future together can be a truly wonderful experience.
However, alongside the excitement, wedding planning can also bring unexpected stress, pressure, and emotional challenges. With budgets to manage, decisions to make, guest lists to agree on, and timelines to meet, it is easy to become overwhelmed. That’s why looking after your mental wellbeing is just as important as organising the practical details of your special day.
Read MoreLiving with Loss: Caring for Your Mental Health Through Grief 💜
During times of bereavement, looking after your mental health is just as important as caring for your physical wellbeing. Simple things such as getting enough rest, eating regularly, spending time outdoors, and staying connected with family and friends can make a real difference. Talking about your loved one and sharing treasured memories can also bring comfort and help keep their memory alive.
Read MoreFuneral Etiquette in the Modern World (Without Panicking About Getting It Wrong)
et’s be honest… many people feel surprisingly anxious about going to funerals. 😬
Not because they don’t care — but because they worry:
👔 What do I wear?
💬 What do I say?
🪑 Where do I sit?
🎵 Do I have to sing?
😢 What if I cry?
😂 What if I laugh?
📱 What if my phone goes off playing Dancing Queen?
(For the love of all things sacred… turn it off. 😅)
Funerals can feel full of invisible rules, and many people are terrified of making some dreadful social misstep.
Read MoreWhy I’m Active on Social Media as a Celebrant – And Why It’s Personal, Not Commercial
“You’re everywhere.” It’s something I hear quite often. YouTube. TikTok. Facebook. Instagram. LinkedIn. And usually, it’s followed by: “Isn’t it all a bit too commercial?” It’s a fair question—but it’s based on a misunderstanding of what it means to be a celebrant. This profession is built on people, not products Unlike many services, being a…
Read MoreMeeting Your Celebrant for the First Time: Weddings & Vow Renewals
So, you’ve had your initial discovery call with your celebrant, you’ve filled in the booking form, and you’ve paid the booking fee to secure the date in the celebrant’s diary.
The next thing… is the face-to-face meeting to get the ball rolling.
(Yes — this is where it all gets real. Slightly exciting… slightly “what have we signed up for?” 😄)
You walk in thinking it’s just another meeting. Another step in planning.
But somewhere between the introductions and the first shared laugh, it becomes something much more meaningful.
Helping You Find the Right Place to Gather, Remember & Celebrate in Telford and Shrewsbury
When someone we love passes, one of the most important moments afterwards is simply being together. Finding the right place for a wake—somewhere warm, welcoming, and comfortable—can make all the difference. It’s where stories are shared, laughter gently returns, and memories are kept alive.
To help, I’ve put together a guide to wake venues across Telford & Shrewsbury 💚
Read MoreWhat Not to Say in a Eulogy: Gentle Guidance for a Meaningful Tribute
Writing a eulogy is one of the most personal things you will ever do.
Most advice focuses on what to include — but knowing what not to say in a eulogy can be just as important.
When emotions are high and the room is full of people who are grieving, sensitivity matters. A few careful choices can make the difference between a comforting tribute and an awkward moment.
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