Celebrant
Direct Cremation and Saying Goodbye: You Still Have Options
In recent months, I’ve spoken with many families who chose a direct cremation for their loved one.
For some, it felt like the perfect choice — simple, affordable, and in keeping with what their loved one wanted. But for others, there was something missing. Not regret about the cremation itself, but regret that they never had the chance to gather, to say goodbye, and to mark the moment together.
And that’s the part many families don’t realise: choosing a direct cremation doesn’t mean you lose the opportunity for ceremony. You still can — and perhaps should — create that space to honour a life.
Read More💬 Thinking about hiring a celebrant? Here’s what you need to know!
As a celebrant I get asked these questions all the time — so here’s a quick guide to the most common ones:
1️⃣ What is a celebrant?
A celebrant designs and leads personalised ceremonies for weddings, funerals, naming ceremonies, vow renewals, and more — telling your story, your way.
2️⃣ Celebrant vs Registrar – what’s the difference?
This is the current situation, but it may change in the future. Registrars’ services can also vary, so it’s always best to check with your local registrar’s office for the most up-to-date information.
Celebrant: Personalised, flexible, any venue, any style. (In England & Wales, you still need a separate legal registration.)
Registrar: Legal marriage in a licensed venue, following a set script — no religious/spiritual content allowed.
Read More✨Am I inclusive of all couples? ✨
The short answer: Absolutely. Always.
Am I inclusive of all couples? As a celebrant, it’s not just my job—but my privilege—to stand alongside people as they mark the most meaningful moments of their lives. And that means all people.
Read MoreHow to Support Your Mental Health Through Grief
Grief affects every part of us — our hearts, our bodies, and most certainly, our minds. It’s not just about sadness; it’s about disorientation, exhaustion, anger, fear, even numbness. At Top Note Ceremonies, we often meet people at one of the hardest points in their lives. As celebrants, we know that while we can’t take…
Read MoreChoosing the Perfect Venue for Your Celebrant Led Ceremony: Freedom, Meaning, and Magic
When it comes to planning a special life event—whether it’s a wedding, vow renewal, baby naming, or even a memorial—there’s one question that always comes up first:
Where should we hold it?
The beauty of a celebrant-led ceremony is that the answer can be absolutely anywhere.
Unlike a legal wedding, which must take place in a licensed venue or registry office, a celebrant-led ceremony gives you complete freedom to choose a location that holds real meaning for you. Whether it’s a garden where you spent your childhood, a windswept beach where you got engaged, or even your own back garden—if it’s special to you, it can be your venue.
Read MoreYour Guide to Officiants in the UK: Making the Right Choice
ENGLAND AND WALES When it comes to getting married in England and Wales, the law currently allows for marriages to be sanctified only by registrars in a civil ceremony or by nominated religious officials in a religious ceremony. However, many couples – and families – are increasingly choosing to hold non-legally binding ceremonies to celebrate…
Read MoreThe Oathing Stone Ritual
The Oathing Stone is a cherished Celtic wedding tradition that symbolises the strength and lasting nature of a couple’s vows. This heartfelt ritual adds a special and personal touch to celebrant led ceremonies, including weddings, vow renewals, and commitment ceremonies.
Read MoreCelebrating a Life: The Power of a Visual Tribute at Your Loved One’s Funeral
When words fail, pictures speak. A visual tribute is a touching and heartfelt way to honour a loved one’s life, showcasing their journey, relationships, and passions through the lens of cherished photographs. Adding a carefully chosen piece of music to the presentation can elevate the moment, evoking memories and emotions that bring everyone closer together.
Read MoreCreating a Heartfelt Funeral Tribute: Writing a Meaningful Eulogy
A eulogy is a deeply personal tribute that honours the life, character, and legacy of someone who has passed away. It’s a delicate balance of facts, anecdotes, and heartfelt stories that paint a vivid picture of the person’s life. Whether you’re writing for a parent, sibling, spouse, or friend, a good eulogy provides comfort, celebrates…
Read MoreWriting Your Own Marriage Vows
Writing your own marriage vows for a celebrant-led wedding makes your big day even more personal and meaningful. Whether you’re looking to add a touch of humour, express deep emotions, or share a unique promise, your vows are the perfect opportunity to capture your love story. Top Note Step-by-Step Guide With each word, you’re creating…
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